Nancy Deanne Halliday: My Unintended Journey

 

Nancy never expected to experience marital unfaithfulness and was grieved to find out her husband's secret after 20 years of marriage. EXTRAordinarly, Nancy found a program at her church that helped her process this betrayal, become closer to Jesus, and learn how to live a more authentic life. Today, she and her husband share their story to help other couples, and she has blossomed in creativity, starting her own interior design business and recently, a non-profit “dedicated to helping women reclaim their lives after the devastation of a partner’s addiction, infidelity, or abandonment. You will learn so much from Nancy, who is engaging, joyful, and wise.

Show Notes:

Nancy refers to the program at North Coast Church in Vista, California, called UJ - "Unintended Journey" - North Coast Church (Vista Campus). The next session begins August 11th, 2025 - registration usually stays open through Labor Day:

⁠https://www.northcoastchurch.com/support_groups/unintended-journey/⁠

  • ⁠Book 1 (UJ) ⁠ - The Healing Choice Guidebook by Susan Allen - 6 month class

  • Book 2 (UJ) - The Healing Choice Guidebook II:  The Journey Continues by Susan Allen - this book is currently sold out but can be purchased through Marlene at the church - 6 month class.

  • ⁠Book 3 (UJ)⁠ - Boundaries - 1 year class

  • Advanced UJ Books/Classes (after you finish the first 3 books) - each are 6 month classes that begin either August or January of each year:

  • ⁠Safe People⁠

  • ⁠Married & Alone⁠

  • ⁠Intimacy Anorexia⁠

Nancy also mentions Lysa TerKeurst - Proverbs 31 Ministries⁠https://lysaterkeurst.com/⁠

Books of Lysa's that helped during a time of struggling with Betrayal:  ⁠Here is a link⁠ to a bundle that has all 4 amazing books:

  • Forgiving What You Can't Forget

  • It's Not Supposed to Be This Way

  • Good Boundaries and Goodbyes

  • Uninvited

Bob Goff:

Nancy’s interior design business can be found at ⁠Hello@ndrestore.org⁠ and ⁠NDRestore.org⁠

Ellen mentions Josh White of Door of Hope in Portland, Oregon and his mantra, "Even on our worst days, Jesus is crazy about us." Click here to hear the church's podcast; this one features a message about Psalm 23.

Ellen Bennett

Ellen Bennett lives near San Diego, California. She has been married to Steve for over 30 years. They have two adult children with incredible spouses, Matt married to Elizabeth who have an adorable son, Caleb and another on the way, and Hayley married to Micah. And, she also has an incorrigible, stinky, and beloved “stroodle” (schnauzer/terrier/poodle?) rescue dog named Covie.

Ellen grew up in Memphis, TN and attended UT Knoxville - GO VOLS. She majored in English literature, has a Master’s in Education, and taught secondary English for 9 years at a private Classical Christian school. She also has experience with homeschooling and teaching at a public school. She loves walks, talks, camping, hiking, and doing Bible studies with friends. She relies on “the love God has for us” (1 John 4:16) and…on her husband brewing her coffee every morning

https://extraordinary.live
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